Stay At Home Mom

Stay at home moms, do you still expect your husband or SO to help do some chores? I literally do EVERYTHING. He doesn’t even pick up after himself he leaves dishes in the sink all the time even though I’ve asked nicely a hundred times to just put them in the dishwasher or just throw away his trash but he never does. I do every single chore, even the yard work and I never get a break from the kids EVER. I love them so much but you know you need a break sometimes and he’ll take over for maybe 30 minutes while I shower then he acts like he can’t handle them even though they are very easy and I’m not just saying that. They really are. I’m just so drained and depressed. :(