Am I selfish?

Question

Last well for lunch we went to my boyfriends restaurant choice (which I do like) before we left we talked about going to my restaurant choice (which he says he hates) eventually I gave in and he promised we would go to my restaurant this week.
Well today is the day and now he’s saying he doesn’t remember promising and it doesn’t matter because it’s selfish of me to ask him to go somewhere he doesn’t like and it shows I don’t respect him. 
Am I wrong for being disappointed, I feel like once in a while we should go where I want to go.

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It's about compromising and doing things for each other even if the other person isn't a fan. I don't see a reason why he can't do something you want to do when you did something he wanted last time. He sounds childish

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He doesn’t like literally anything? I find it hard to believe. I’ve been picky all my life and can find something I like just about everywhere. I definitely think he should’ve made the effort to go to your restaurant.

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Gaslighting

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Go by yourself and enjoy your favorite meal! Leave him at home if he doesn’t like it

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You go and invite him. Or order from your fav restaurant and then he can do what ever.

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Is there a reason he hates it, like an allergy or something? If it's just being picky then he's definitely being an ass, but if there's some sort of food allergy I could understand.

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I honestly wish I could hit no and he’s an asshole lol. Him coming to the conclusion that you’re selfish is ridiculous. I don’t know how he got there, but I’m sure he could find something he likes there. Honestly like other people have said..he’s being childish. Just say fuck it and go there with your friends if he’s not going to compromise with you. That’s just silly on his part and he really owes you an apology for being a dick.

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Idk my husband hates my favorite restaurant but he makes it work

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That’s a weird conclusion for him to draw. You’re not selfish. He’s allowed to not like the food from where you do, but it doesn’t make you unreasonable or selfish to request going to that restaurant. After he apologizes for that remark, maybe I’d meet in the middle and find other new places y’all both like. I think he sucks at expressing himself. If he doesn’t want to go, just start going there with your girlfriends. But definitely say you feel that he owes you an apology for calling you selfish over a very reasonable request.

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He sounds childish.

Am I selfish?

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