Husband on my LAST nerve

Ok so where to start...

I just need to rant/vent a little like any mommy needs to😄 so me and my husband have been together for over 7 years, married for a little over a year now. Since MAY of 2019 he has NOT worked. Its been so hard and all I get is bullshit from him, he gets pissed that I apply to jobs for him, but he knows I'm struggling to keep up with everything, he had a job and quit on the 4th day because it was "to hard". I work full time and almost picked up a 2nd job until I got him a job just recently. But he sits at home literally all day playing games unless he goes to do something with his dad where he can take both kids, everyday he sleeps right up until I go to work, Nd every night I come home I'm picking up trash from him and the kids, doing dishes or picking them up from around the house, picking clothes up off the floor that he throws and leaves and anytime he calls me I get nothing but accused of shit. Saying I'm working with my boyfriend, like really. I work housekeeping at a hospital and we have assignments on our OWN, like yes there's guys that work here but I'm always working by myself, he never calls and asks how I'm doing and he's only nice when he wants something. Its upsetting asf cuz I love him but if he actually loves me like he says he does why do I always get accused of shit, why does he get pissed about what I wear, and why is it day in and day out I'm getting called a whore, cunt, fat bitch, fat ass, retarded, stupid. And he thinks its funny to just smack my flub on my tummy and grab my back fat when I JUST had his baby, like way to bring my self esteem to an al time low....I don't know what to think anymore😪 I don't wanna give up but I'm to that point, its like I'm a married single mother

Oh and I forgot, on top of all the other bullshit. He has no car no nothing. Everything I have I've busted my ass to get on my own. My first car he pressured me into getting from where he worked at Ford ended up being a big shit hole but I just recently got a new car a few months ago, but... everytime we go somewhere in MY CAR. He thinks he's the only person who is suppose to drive. I put the gas in the car, make the payments, make sure it has insurance but he feels he has authority over me to be the only person driving MY CAR🤔🤔😡