Marriage help

What are some things you've used to strengthen your marriage?

My husband and I have completely different communication styles. I'm more lets face it now and talk about it and he runs away. He is quicker to insult and raise his voice than any other man I have been with. He is on medicine for his anxiety and depression, and will be starting therapy. I am starting therapy as well. I felt it important to start individually at first as I suffer from cPTSD and generalized anxiety.

Any books, games, exercises, etc? We are willing to do whatever it takes to strengthen our marriage. When we are good we are head over heels, laughing like teens. When we argue it's like we don't even know eachother.