Can someone help? I’m 19

Question

I don’t feel sexually aroused when me and my boyfriend start to have sex. I also don’t feel anything while he’s inside or giving me oral. He’s the only person I’ve been with is there something wrong with me.￼

Answer

There’s a chance he may not be doing it right? I remember when I first start having sex, the guys I would do it with I didn’t feel anything but it just depends on the guy you get, you know? There’s some guys where I felt completely nothing and others were I did and others where I had to be on the top to feel something. Like try different positions and all sorts of things obviously being okay with you and your partner. And last it’s okay to leave a guy bc your not sexually satisfied bc your needs matter too. ￼But just don’t tell him that. But I hope you guys can figure it out 💗. And with the guys I felt nothing with I didn’t say bc I wanted to be in a healthy relationship where it was real not fake.

Can someone help? I’m 19

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