Advice Needed

I was asked to be a bridesmaid for a wedding in May 22 2021. I just found I am pregnant at 5wks : due June 8th 2021.

My hubs wants me to tell her now out of respect, but I am hesitant and want to wait until I’m 12 weeks (end of November). Because things could happen.

Any advice?

Also my cousin who I’m close to is getting married June 19th so how do I break it to them too?

**edit.. I know weddings are expensive, I just got married in September lol at the wedding she told me to “make a baby” and I said that if it happened I’d be like 37 wks @ hers and she said “okay so?” Also I would be paying for my own dress, shoes, ect for her wedding