Is my husband mean or am I sensitive

Okay so my husband always hurts my feelings and then claims that im too sensitive. It’s gotten to the point where I don’t even know sometimes if I am sensitive or if he’s just a dick,

For an example. My feet were dangling off of the bed by him. (He was sitting in a chair) so be started massaging my foot, so I thought maybe he was giving me a massage. He stopped so I put my foot back on him. He goes “ I am not a massage therapist, it’s annoying as hell” I’m like damn.. okay. He says theres no guideline to being a husband. A husband doesn’t need to be a massage therapist.

I said well damn. I would massage your feet whenever you wanted me to. My feet just hurt. Thought you wanted to massage them.

I then said “well your attitude is pretty shitty”

He said “oh well then”

Am I being a bitch or is he just a jerk?

He always makes me second guess myself that I’m too SENSITIVE... but in my eyes. It just feels like he’s a dick.

Honest opinions please.