Should I go to a friends birthday dinner if I haven’t seen her in two years? More details below, any advice welcomed!!

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My ‘friend’ hasn’t talked to me for about 2 years. Than she ( friend A) randomly texted me and asked if I wanted to come hangout at her birthday dinner with her and friend B. I said sure. So I got friend A a small gift than I realized that friend B’s birthday is two days before the dinner. So should I get friend B a gift also, or tell them I can’t go that night and reschedule a different night and give them both a gift? 
They stopped talking to me 2 weeks before my birthday a few years ago and didn’t tell me happy Birthday. And now I don’t know if a birthday is the best time to see them.
I don’t know what to do and it’s stressing me out and adding to my anxiety:(

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Its up to you. Dont worry about the gifts so much... get them something cheap and focus on seeing if they really trying to rekindle the relationships

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You haven't seen these people in 2 years, dont go see them during a pandemic.

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Return all gifts you have purchased and don't go to either birthday.

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Don't go! I wouldn't consider them friends anymore.

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i would get myself something with that money and not go BUT if you do really want to go i would just take a bottle of wine for the bunch of us (if y’all drink) 
why you buying them gifts when they don’t talk to you ? or never wished you a happy birthday or didn’t bother to get you a gift ? don’t girl they clearly don’t appreciate you

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Unless YOU really want to rekindle the friendship, then go. But otherwise I wouldn’t go.
If you do go, bring a ‘group’ gift, like a small cake or something, not individual presents. If it ends up being a wash, you won’t be out the extra effort and money !

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Personally I wouldn’t go but it’s up to you. If I did go, I wouldn’t bring a gift since it’s a dinner and not a party

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Don’t go if you’re stressed. And I would buy a round of drinks instead of doing a gift if you do go.

Should I go to a friends birthday dinner if I haven’t seen her in two years? More details below, any advice welcomed!!

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