Can anyone relate or is it just me?

Question

Ive been married to my husband for 10 years we have 3 kids just had our third in July. There has always been those days were I doubt my love for him some days I feel like he gets on my nerves and that I just don’t love him the same anymore and some days I feel like I love him so much and so grateful to have him. Recently Ive been doubting my love for him more often idk if my hormones are still all over from pregnancy or what!  And sometimes I doubt his love for me too. Idk I hate days like these. 
Sometimes I wish I wasn’t married to him and sometimes Im so happy and feel lucky I married him. I know it sounds crazy but thats how I feel

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🙋‍♀️ yes! I think that's marriage! My husband and I have been together for 10 years in January. Some days I hate his guts and some days idk what I would do with out him. My good out weigh the bad and that's also important- marriages evolve and change through time, kids, global pandemics 🤣. He is a gooood man and marriage is a choice we make ever day. We make the choice to stay together every day and love each other and our babies (&dog❤️) 
As long as your good outweigh the bad and you still have love - carry on:)

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I wanted to edit my comment and add, I heard something that really impacted me before I got married (have been married 9 years.) it was a pastor by the name of John piper who said- I’m super paraphrasing this- “because people change and grow, marriage is about falling in love with your spouse over and over.” I found this an important shift in my perspective on marriage. Its okay to fall out of love because you can fall back in love. I need to continue to engage and pursue my husband the same as when we were dating.  It’s not always easy but I know he’s a good guy and I made that decision and I’m going to stick with it. 
 
Another thing I have to remind myself is that love is an action we choose, everyday. It’s not always easy but it’s always the right thing to do.  ❤️

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I think all marriages have their ups and downs. It’s normal. I sometimes feel the same way. I love him, but he also sometimes gets on my nerves. I’m sure I get on his too. 
I find that going on dates helps a lot. Without the kids, you kind of remember why you chose this person in the first place.

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Yep! I feel the same! ☹️☹️

Can anyone relate or is it just me?

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