BROKE UP WITH HIM. *ADVICE PLZ*

So recently my boyfriend and I have been bumping heads. The first thing is last week there were rumors going around of him cheating. I could never get proof so I looked past it, we went out to eat at Applebee’s that night. Had a few drinks. Boom happy. Now today he’s starting to do the same pattern I’ve called him out for. Ignoring me for almost a complete day- 8 hrs to be exact however is continuously posting on social media. He’s done this at least more than 3 times and whenever I explain to him how I feel about this matter he says, “I love you, I’m gonna get better i promise.” And at this point his excuse has become played out!

And I basically told him that. If you’re posting on social media you’re clearly not as busy as you say you are. And he had the nerve to say I’m always asking for too much and I’m being over dramatic about this situation. He said it’s always dealing with “social media.”

1st I just used social media as proof of him ignoring me. I could care less about that. Also, it made me upset that he thinks I’m asking for too much when y’all I don’t ask this man for shit literally. Just attention, Appreciation, & Love. I’m not even the clingy type because I have a child who needs my focus. And long story short I broke up with him because I’m tired of explaining to him what I don’t like and he keeps on doing it. I help him out so much. He’s struggling financially right now. Pretty much this past week I spent $90 on him altogether. But he has the never to say I don’t appreciate what he does or I’m asking for too much. Not once have I ever asked him for anything, just the attention I deserve. And I’ve realized my worth and I feel like if someone really loves you, they will do anything to keep you happy. Without you bringing it to their attention multiple times. Was I wrong for ending the relationship? I’ve stuck by this man for a year. I’ve always used the “it’s okay” line. I get advice from older couples to see how they make it work. I put so much effort into this relationship. I can’t even get a gift, a bubble bath, or hell he don’t even fucking post me! I just feel like he does not appreciate everything I’ve done for him and he’s not trying to make the relationship work like I am.