Dating

So I just wanna know if I’m buggin....

I feel like before I have sex with guy I should be taken out on at least four or five dates first so that I can get to know them. It’s not about spending money it’s really just about the effort and and seeing if we’re compatible. I’m someone that needs an emotional connection to have sex. I feel like the expectation of men have dropped a lot and some of them feel like they don’t need to do much to show a woman that they care about learning about who we are as person.

If I’m not making sense please let me know I really don’t wanna be out here looking crazy ☹️