I’m at a loss

Hi ladies... it has been a month since I had ahead my miscarriage... I was 7 weeks pregnant... I hate feeling so helpless... I feel like I did something to cause my loss and that is killing me... my husband isn’t much of a talker... and me and my mom have always been super close but we never talk about sad stuff... she keeps saying at least I wasn’t very far along...

On top of all this... now that we are ready to start trying again my husband can not ... keep it up. Every time we have sex he goes soft.. and I feel like I have done something to turn him off...

I am just at a loss.. have you ladies ever been through something like this???