Help mamas!!!😩🤣

Autumn

So I’m a new mama to a 4 month old and I am 1000% against having another baby anytime soon. Me and my husband have been using condoms but it has literally ruined our sex life it feels life. They suck so bad and take out all the pleasure for us both. I am on the patch birth control but I’m sooooo scared to still not use condoms. Any advice 😩😩😩 what do y’all do 👀