Fast letdown tips?

My letdown is so fast 😞 it literally sprays in 3 directions. I have to let it go out in a towel before I can feed my little guy. With my daughter she had terrible tummy issues because of it.. my son is 3 weeks and isn’t as fussy as my daughter was (yet..), but does have issues with gas because of it that makes him very fussy at times..

Here’s what I have tried/do: burp often, hold upright for a long time after feedings, laid back nursing, unlatch until letdown slows, gas drops (don’t work), gripe water(sometimes works maybe?).. what else can I try?

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