All of my best friends are friends with girls who I was cheated on with.

I’m a little sad that I feel like I’m loosing all of my friends.

Both of my ex’s are pretty terrible guys. I was cheated on multiple times in both relationships. Well I have forgiven them and while I rather not have any interaction with them, I have learned to accept that my close friends are still friends with them (different friend groups but they grew up together) so they are around sometimes.

They are also friends with some of the girls I was cheated on with. It’s not like I’m mad at the girls, I don’t hate them, they owed me no loyalty, they were not my friends when it happened but I also just don’t want to be around them. One of my closest friends is getting close to one of those girls, hanging out a lot and I know she’s going to start being around for birthday and family celebrations and the such and it’s just like 😔.

I obviously don’t own anyone and can’t tell them not to be friends with who they want but because of this I’ve started to push away. Just sucks and I’m a little bummed about it.