MIL help

Trista • Girl mom of 2 under 2💜

I’ll start off by saying that we get along very well. There’s just this one thing that really bothers me. She refuses to ask me if she can see her grandkid. Me and my husband have to be the ones to ask. (She’s been this way since my daughter was born so rona has nothing to do with it). If it weren’t for us, she would never see her. Am I wrong for thinking that it’s absolutely ridiculous we have to be the ones to make sure she sees her grandkid? I’ve told my husband to talk to her about it which he has and she still refuses. I even told her she can ask me twice in the same conversation and she told me no. I’m just over it at this point, if she wants to see her she can ask. 🤷🏻‍♀️