SILS hangout without me

Ok, I know this is going to sound super childish, I know, I know, but my feelings are kind of hurt and I want to be accepted in my husbands family.

My husband has 2 older sisters. His sisters are super close, but have had a rocky relationship, and have gotten into huge fights resulting in them not speaking for over a year. I have known them for 7 years and I always have been on good terms with them.

They always hangout and never invite me, and it makes me kind of sad because I thought they liked me. Their kids are older, mine are still babies, so I can’t be as flexible as they are, but I wish they would invite me sometimes.

They go to each others houses, they go out to brunch, they go shopping together. They went out to brunch a few weeks ago, and the next time I saw them I asked how it was, they said it was good and I should come next time. I told them I would definitely come, and then i just saw a picture of them from this weekend and I didn’t get an invite ☹️. And I know it wasn’t just a sister thing, because my one sister had a bunch of her mom friends there.

I guess maybe they don’t like me, but i don’t know. They both came to my bachelorette party and we had a great time, but my one sil was kind of a bitch to my friends, so maybe she doesn’t like me. I always watch their kids when they need me to, and i treat their kids good, I don’t know what the problem is. Sometimes I think they just pretend to like me so I will watch their kids? I don’t know. Anyone else in a similar situation?

I know it’s not a sister only thing because they always invite their friends too, so I don’t know