I invited a guy over

I invited this guy over and we have been kind of “dating” honestly not really and we haven’t done anything but last night I was horny so I was trying to give off hints I wanted to have sex but he just wasn’t taking it well fast forward to this morning I’m doing some homework for college and I he’s on my bed just chillin we planned for him to stay another night but girls I want him to leave idk what to do should I just let him stick around or mention hey maybe you should go home??? Idk I feel so bad bcuz he was once my best friend but than when we started “going out” we just don’t act like anything idk and the only reason I really wanted him to come is so I could lose my virginity but I know that’s not the right way to do it so i feel that’s why I want him to leave so bad I feel so bad I also feel pressure to lose my virginity bcuz I’m 19 and all my friends at college younger and older than me have lost it and I’m just here idk I know I shouldn’t do it if I don’t feel right about sorry for the long spill of crap ahah