I CANT GET THE GUY IM DATING TURNED ON HELP

The guy I’m dating and I went out for Halloween and the mood was already negative because he had me waiting for so long but it was due to family issues. I had asked many times if we should cancel but he insisted. We went out for drinks but I had forgotten that I hadn’t eaten for the entire day so I got drunk pretty fast. Afterwards we went in his car and was making out. I was on my period so he couldn’t eat me out but I let him finger me. I didn’t orgasm which seems to happen a lot. He was close but I don’t know what happened. Then I wanted to feel him. With him it takes longer for him to be turned on and quickly to not be. It made me feel a way. I told him I wanted to feel it get hard and he told me don’t say that because he gets in his head. Then I got turned off and upset. I was upset that I can’t seem to please him. Then he said “well sorry” and started to put his clothes back on. It made me cry when he did that and he felt really bad. He told me that out of all the girls he’s been with he puts me on a pedestal and so he feels not confident in himself. I was just so confused by everything. I just don’t know what to do. I had never been in a relationship or have been intimate with anyone and I’m 21.