4 month trying and just got my period, how do you stay postive?

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4th month TTC baby #1. We are both 28 and have been together 8 years, married 1.5. We waited longer for kids than most of our friends/family our age and now it doesn’t seem to be happening for us. I know it has only been 4 months but I have never felt so depressed or upset by something in my life before. Any ideas of how to stay positive and not stress!? Any help is greatly appreciated❤️❤️❤️

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Well, be happy you’re only 4 months in and not 6.5 years like me

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It’s been well over two years for me

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When we stopped timed intercourse it got less stressful and more fun and we had more sex. 
First kid it took 7 months. 
Second pregnancy 1 month (ended in miscarriage)
Third pregnancy 2 months
It’s so different every time.

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It's been 5 months for me TTC #1. I know it's hard but keep positive. I found that I stopped obsessing and found other things to do each month so I wasn't putting pressure on myself or my man. Baby dust to both of us ☺️

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4 months is absolutely normal. It can take a healthy couple up to a full year of actively trying to actually conceive. It'll happen

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Been 5 months and God knows why i never imagined it would take this long. I guess every one around me always seemed to conceive as soon as they planned to have a baby! Friends. Family... Now sometimes I worry myself sick that something is definitely wrong despite all my tests and scans which have been cleared. I try to stay positive after my period and during the fertile week and am doing the best I can but as AF is approaching and BFNs come in, I start to lose hope again. I hope this happens for all of us very soon! 💕

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We've been ttc for 3 years with 4 miscarriages in that time. We just remind ourselves how it will feel to finally see a healthy baby on the screen and how it will feel to finally hold that healthy baby.

4 month trying and just got my period, how do you stay postive?

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