How would you guys deal with this?

How should I deal with a selfish and lazy sex partner? He always wants me to give him oral but he never wants to return the favor. I have asked him about it several times and he just says he doesn’t know why he doesn’t do it. It’s pretty annoying and frustrating I’m just giving oral and not receiving anything in return. Also, he loves to have me bent over and I receive no pleasure what so ever from that position so I literally just sit and stand there I feel nothing. He finishes and then ask me if it felt good and I lie and say yeah because I just don’t want the drama. I’ve mentioned it to him several times. I’m not eager to have sex because it just seems like a chore or just one sided. Sex is over when he comes and that sucks smh.