Are rough patches normal in a relationship ?

Question

My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half now and for the past two weeks, it seems like all we’ve done is argue and bicker. We’ve almost broken up twice and it always ends in both of us crying and wanting to stay together to fix our relationship. 
Does anyone have any advice on how to get past this rough patch ? We’ve NEVER argued this much for so long and im starting to feel so hopeless😭

Answer

It’s completely normal. Find the real root of what is bothering you. Refrain from blame. 
Sometimes “you won’t do the dishes and it’s pissing me tf off!!” Is really “my mother never let me leave a dish on the sink and it triggers me”  
“You did ____ and it made me feel really _______” stay in touch with your vulnerability 💖

Answer

Also never forget that it’s not you vs your partner it’s the both of you vs the problem!! :)
My bf and I have been together for a little over a year and half too. We went through a rough patch a few months ago. It took a lot of self reflecting on both ends and communication. If you’re both wanting to stay and find each other worth fighting for then you’ll both put in the effort to work it out. Give each other space to have your own thoughts and then come together to reflect and tackle what’s causing your problems. You got this❤️

Are rough patches normal in a relationship ?

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