anyone?

My husband and I have been together 11 years; and have a baby together.

Lately, our marriage has been crap. A lot of fighting, routine, no affection. It’s slowly sizzling away. Right now I feel like I’m not in love with him but of course I love him.

Well; during this slump this guy from work and i have been messaging back and fourth. No flirting right now, just strictly about our babies and just random things. He’s also married.

Part of me feels guilty. I do find him very cute. ObviouslyI don’t know if he does as well since our friendship hasn’t passed anything but that. I wouldn’t even say we are friends. It kind of excites me when he messages me and I get all giddy. obviously it’s because it’s something new. i’ve only been with my husband.

i do think of this guy sexually as well.

anyone ever go through something similar?