Need advice long vent

Hi y’all I’m 37 weeks pregnant and the last month and a half has been hell..

I lost my grandmother on 10/13.. my husband & I closed on our home on 10/14.. my dad needed emergency back surgery on 10/14... fast forward 2 weeks later he had a fever of 103 come to find out he needed emergency surgery again due to having an abscess where they did the original surgery..

My husband and I have been arguing a lot lately and I feel like my emotions are over the place from my grandmas death to moving/ unpacking and trying to be happy for the arrival of our baby girl..

Last night he went to the casino with his friends saying he just needed to decompress with everything going on which is fine..

We also gave a 7 year old son, so he’s home full time with distance learning and I’ve been home since March wfh and doing the whole school thing with him. My husband works for the feds so he has to go in everyday...

This morning I texted my husband telling him I had a nail appt at 1:30 would he be home.. he responded should be.. 12:50 comes around I call him no answer so I decided to just take my child with me..

We get home and I’m a little upset because I love to get my nails done even though it’s just a an hour to myself.. but I feel like my husband could of cared less..

Am I wrong for getting upset with him? Is it my hormones.. as stated earlier it’s been a tough month and a half :(