Here is my story about love answer the question at the bottom!

Awhile ago , I had a boyfriend who cheated on me 3x and I found out about all in the same day it broke me badly because he was my first serious boyfriend. He was a good guy in the relationship but I never understood why he cheated the only thing I could think of is he wanted to have sex and I didn’t want to and I think it upset him because I wouldn’t do it... this time I learned something new, I finally moved on and the guy I’m talking to I’ve known him and we talked since may 2020 when I was just breaking up with my boyfriend and I closed him off due to the fact I still was caught up on my ex. He came back though 5- 6 months later and just being with him is just different... it’s a better place and we talked about sex and I told him I don’t want to have sex and he said and I quote “that’s ok, it’s whenever you’re ready is when we can but it’s always gonna be up to you”. Wow... who knew that once upon a time I ignored him and never talked to now him being a GREAT guy:) I’m scared to lose him though because I over think things and I get down on myself but he’s a very respectful male, we got into it a little and I told him to stop because it made me uncomfortable so he stopped unlike my ex who kept going on things and this one makes me happy like ALOT I don’t remember a day without him and it’s a better place since he’s been here... anyone have any advice to know if I love him or not?