Xmas plans.

So before I catch any heck about this we are only seeing family that already watches our daughter during the week while we work. So we aren't doing big gatherings

But for the past ten yrs my husband and I have gone to his parents on Christmas eve and day for lunch then my parents both days for dinner.

Last yr it was too much with our daughter and I told him I wanted to do it differently this year. We had planned on doing our usual Christmas eve then just having grandparents stop by our house on Christmas day.

The only issue is his parents are bad about overstaying and our parents don't really jive.

Doing one family one day and the other the next isn't an option this year.

Idk wtf to do. I will really miss going to my parents on Christmas day if we don't this yr.

Lol if you read all this I'm so sorry for wasting your time. Just need ideas!!