I left my “love of my life” and met my true love.

I met an amazing man, well who i thought was amazing at first, and fell in love. I knew when i saw him i was gonna marry him. 5 months in he became more and more controlling. I couldn’t have guy friends, i couldn’t look in a guys direction, he couldn’t stand when i spent time with my family or friends, he made me drop any of my friends that vaped, drunk, or smoked. He didn’t allow me to post certain stuff. I couldn’t wear certain clothes. I even had to delete every single man off of all social media. When i worked, i wasn’t allowed to even speak to the male customers, unless it was needed. If i cussed he’d scream at me. Then he got verbally abusive 7 months in. Stupid b*tch, whore, dumbass, worthless, etc. I thought arguments were normal, i thought controlling was normal. 8 months in he went to PCB with his friends, but i had to work so couldn’t go. He ignores me the whole trip. If i called, he’d cussed me out. I cried. But it was normal right? He got home and acted weird. He then started accusing me of cheating, he’d go through my phone and point out little stuff. It continued. I let it go on. A few months later his family invites me to PCB with them. We go, have a good time, until his aunt slips something out. Her words “the boys were knocked out last time, all them girls here wore them out” laughing. Then proceedes to say “but (boyfriend) wasn’t near them, (me)” i just looked and laughed. I wanted to cry. He looked at me and just glared at me. He ignores it for the rest of the day, he didn’t say anything. Finally in bed, he told me he cheated. But it shouldn’t matter because technically it was my fault, i was a virgin and wasn’t ready, because of that it was MY fault. Later in gets to physical abuse. Grabbing me, pinching me, bruises. I let this go on for 2 years.

during the relationship

5months later, i meet the man that’s always been in my heart. We met 5 years ago, we stayed friends until i got with assface^. I had to block him and we lost touch. Until he added me on my new facebook. We talked for 6 months before he asked me to be his girlfriend. He’s amazing, calls me beautiful, let’s me talk to my friends, loves my family, treats my little siblings like they’re his, and pushes me to do great in life. I never thought i could be capable of being loved but there he comes. He’s turned my world into a happy place. And most importantly, his family treats me like there’s. We’ve only been dating 2 months but i can honestly say i love this man. Some say it’s too soon, but i’ve never met anyone that treats me like a queen as he does. He’s my world. We vibe so much, he’s truly my best friend. We go to church together, which makes me happy because church and religion is a big part of my life. He loves animals, as i do. He can cook amazingly, which i love to eat, and he’s just perfect in my eyes. He has his flaws, we have some flaws, but that’s what makes him perfect. ❤️🥰

me now