Depression and love ☹️

We aren’t in any offical relationship but he has told me he loves me and said that he genuinely does not say those words unless he means it. We are the type to spend the night with each other and not worry about sex so I know that’s not something he uses me for. But he has depression and for the last few months he has gone in and out of pushing me away. I’m so stuck at this point because I don’t know what the right thing to do is. He has asked that when he gets like this to be stubborn with him and just go over to his place, but I’m not sure if that will really work or be good. I am scared he might push me away further. Plus I don’t ever just show up at his place unless we make plans.

1. Be supportive but if he pushes you away, let him but keep your door open for him (silently)

2. Be supportive but if he pushes you away, cut him off once he does (don’t tell him you are unless he comes back asking for another shot)

3. Try out what he asked you to try

4. If he pushes you away end things with him but do so lovingly and let him know you’re always here and a door is always open.

5. If he pushes you away, end things with him but do so lovingly. Don’t leave a door open

Feel free to comment if you have your own suggestion or a combo