I feel like I may as well be single.

My husband will only do household things that suit him. Like he'll do a load of laundry if needed, but with only his things. He does the dishes occasionally, and he mopped the kitchen only yesterday.

I've had this conversation with him time and time again and before, I didn't feel like this was an issue worth pursuing but I'm TIRED of picking up people's slack. I do it at work, I do it at home. I asked him yesterday when was the last time he fed the dogs (other than when I wasn't home on Wednesday) and he couldn't answer me.

Even when I had a stomach bug, he was home so late that day I had to feed the dogs and cats, they couldn't wait any longer to get food.

I legitimately feel like we aren't even a functional married couple anymore. He will take hours to get back to my messages when I know for a FACT he's not busy. We have mechanical sex and I feel like he's sabotaging our TTC (which I'm actually going to stop now).

I am so tired. So so so tired. I know I don't contribute as much to the household as he does, but I do put whatever money I have into the house and I'm the one who takes care of any issues (plumbing, electrical, garden, etc).

Is this really worth throwing a whole marriage away over? As it is he finished work 50 minutes ago and he's still not home (and he works 3kms from home so it's not even like traffic is an issue).