Is it just me?

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So my S/O does this thing at times, I will be sleeping and he'd just rub my butt then proceed to remove my underwear...this morning I stopped him, I mean its 5 in the a.m. I'm 5 almost 6 months pregnant and I just am not wet and ready to be penetrated at that time. Like if you want to sex me down then get me ready you can't force it into dry walls. Idk, maybe I'm "broken" down there or something but yea....just no! How do you ladies cope? IF your significant other does this, are you instantly wet or could do more to make your walls lubricate? I'm talking about be woke up out of your your 5/6 month pregnant sleep, severe leg cramps, bloating and headaches not to mention a busy toddler the night before. Can you instantly get wet or do you need him to foreplay a little to help? I have no problem making love or anything just under the current circumstances I'm like um could you plz....just leave me alone if you trying to dry hump, that hurts.

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No way, especially at 5 in the morning. There’s nothing wrong with you for not being instantly wet and ready for him. Between being woken up early in the morning and being very pregnant, it’s honestly a little ridiculous for him to even think that could work without foreplay

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I would probably punch my husband if he tried that. I yell at him just for making noise that early

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NO FOREPLAY NO SEX 😆 
I don’t understand how can he just expect to put it inside you. If I am not wet it is painful for me and it is painful for him as well!

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At 5 am I need some warming up first.. We've talked about it before so he knows he has to turn on the car before he can get in for a ride.

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My fiancé does that sometimes. He knows that if I say no I mean for him to him to stop. He’s good at making sure I’m ok cause it’s also uncomfortable for him if we’re too dry. I’d sit him down and have a serious conversation. And if he chooses to keep doing it that is when I’d give him the ultimatum: don’t touch me without asking or you are gone.

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Without foreplay.. I don't have sex.. it can't just be in and out and then done.
How on earth can u get pleasure out of that.
It's just selfish and lazy.

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definitely not just you. my husband does this thing where he starts touching my vagina and wants to put his fingers in me and im just like hello???? i’m not wet and that shit hurts, i tell him to stop. i get they get really horny but they need to understand everything changes once you’re pregnant, most of the time you don’t even want them touching you 🥴 you should talk to him about this. tell him that if he’s really that horny he could masturbate or if you’re ok with him waking you up at 5 am to at least ask you if you’re down to have sex. ALSO it’s ok to turn him down. he needs to understand. he needs to see that obviously you’ll need tons of foreplay, lube, and he needs to take his time and go slow before he tries to stick anything in there! have a convo with him ❤️

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I’d need lots of kisses and cuddles and rubs if he wanted me to give it up at 5 am hahaha maybe ask him to do that instead of trying to do it while you’re half asleep and not turned on 
Or if you don’t wanna at 5 just tell him let your pregnant self sleeeeppp 😂😂

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My spouse knows better than to wake me up for sex. He usually just masturbates to porn. I would talk to him about the touching, if it makes you uncomfortable in any way you need to let him know. There are Boundaries!

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I guess I am the odd woman out here. I love being woken up to him touching me. When not pregnant I get wet pretty quickly. Of course, these were the pre-baby days. Touch me and I’m ready for you! We would just fall back asleep after. However, while pregnant, I needed more foreplay. Post partum, I had a couple months of not getting wet enough even with foreplay. Now, our baby sleeps between us so no more wake-up-in-the-night-for-a-sleepy-but-amazing-quickie. I miss it!

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