Is this normal for him to say

My bd yesterday night came over and I’m 39 weeks pregnant I go about and start talking about how the baby kicks a lot and how I be getting uncomfortable like any other pregnant woman would be at this stage, and he goes your gunna let a little infant dictate your life right now if you don’t like that she’s kicking so much start jumping so she can switch positions you tell her what to do she doesn’t run you..... 😳 I’m just like wow it isn’t that serious dude ...