I’m stuck. 😔

Okay, so long story short I had a huge fallout with my relationship and my partners family, he got his parents involved by asking for their help.

About a week ago His mom, started talking down about my parents , she pointing fingers at me literally, and then was yelling in my face to the point where I felt her spit land on me, she nudged me in my nose and mouth his her fingers.

All while I was holding my 6 month old babygirl, and I didn’t do anything still, I was sitting in a chair.

Afterwards she held my baby, she was telling her that “your mommy is so stupid she ruined your life” or something.

Today is Christmas they are celebrating, and she wants me to bring my daughter over there.

She hasn’t apologized.

We got everyone gifts regardless, kill them with kindness.

I’m not wanting everything, but they got everyone something including my partner and my daughter and left me out and nothing for me.

My partner is mad at me because I am not going over, and he says that I shouldn’t not take my daughter because of what problems me and her have, I get it but still.

They also want to stay until 12am and no way, my baby sleeps at 9pm latest 10pm.

What do I do?