‚no spark‘

hi girls! 💘

so i‘ve been texting with a guy for a few weeks now, not regularly because i‘m quite busy and so is he. but when we text, we talk about everything also personal stuff. about 2 weeks after we started texting he invited me & my sister to a game night with his friends. we went there and it was a bit awkward at first cause everybody speaks a different language and it took a while to get used to it. but at the end of the night everything was fine. he asked me to do something again a few times since but i never really said yes. so a few days ago we met again cause i finally said yes. he wanted to go for a walk. it was so cold that we decided to just drive around and get some coffee. we hadn‘t really much time, i think around 30 minutes, and we talked about normal stuff. on my mind i thought more of him as a friend and was also a bit distant cause my sister was hospitalised the day before we met.

anyways after the meeting he texted me that he didn‘t really feel a spark and i was a bit shocked cause i didn‘t even think that was a proper date and also we had not really the chance to talk about anything really. so i said that it‘s fine and nobody should force feelings and i‘m cool with it. but then he said that he‘s never been in a relationship and is very new to this stuff and doesn‘t really know what he‘s doing. he also said that he‘d like to see me again and get to know me better. i was soo confused and i still am.

i would generally be open to see if we could be more than friends but now idk what to do..

what‘s your opinion on the whole situation?