How crappy is my bf?

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Been together 4 years. Hes been perfect through the holidays. Attentive. Caring. But was so mean yesterday 
My car broke down. Not too far from my house. It was snowing/raining and freezing so I texted him and told him where I was.  He calls me. Asks "how are you going to get home?" I said "i guess ill walk"...hoping he would be a good man and take the hint. He says "ok..well call me later".
He lives 3 miles from me.
If that didnt hurt enough...i texted him wyd. He says hanging out.. I say with who?... He says "yo mama" and I say well, why can you just tell me?
He goes into this horrible outburst and says " trust me or shut the f up...tired og your insecurities". I simply asked " w who?" . wasnt being crazy. Just wanted to know.
Im sitting here fuming for an hour. Crying. I mean my car is broke down . i call him.
He is hanging out with the guys from work, there are two 21 yr old girls there as well and they are all drinking. Mind you, he is 34 and I am 30. 
Leaves me on read all night. Sends me another text this morning saying " trust me or shut the f up".

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Who cares where he was or who he was with? He’s an asshole who left you freezing on the side of the road without a care for your well-being. That’s not a boyfriend, dump his ass and move on with your life.

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1) he isn’t a mind reader, if you wanted a ride home ASK! Can’t be upset that he didn’t read your mind. Should he have offered? I would’ve offered. But sometimes those hints are missed. 
2) While I don’t think it’s necessary to ask who he’s hanging out with, his response was rude. I’m wondering if there is more, trust issue wise that we are missing here.

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throw him out Kobe style

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Very crappy and you should dump him. I mean, some people don’t get hints so you need to be direct if you need help. But the way he’s talking to you is unacceptable. Being curious about what someone is doing and wanting a real answer instead of “yo mamma” doesn’t mean you don’t trust him. When I’m on break at work I call my boyfriend and he tells me what he’s doing, who he’s with and what’s going on. Do I NEED to know? No, but I wanna talk and hear about his day. 
Let him go, he’s not worth it. You can love yourself a million times better than he can, you don’t need that crap.

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U should of just asked him to pick you up. Cant assume somone should just be nice even know yes he should of. 
And has of him going out hes right on ur insecurities and that's a u problem and has of him talking to you that way hell no I would definitely be talking to him about it communication is key and the fact he been great bf u said no issues not being mean or anything try to work it out and explain to how the way he talk to you wasnt right. And u need to trust him.

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I always have such a hard time understanding why women think you’re wrong for asking who he was hanging out with... isn’t it just a respect thing? Simple question simple answer. If you’re hanging out with a friend how hard is it to answer a ten second question. My hubby and I don’t “have to check” with each other if we can go out or whatever. We just check in with each other out of respect before we make plans with someone else. Maybe chicka was asking him who he was with cause maybe it was a mutual friend and they all could of hung out or maybe someone she hasn’t seen in a while and wanted to ask how they are doing? Ya know, fucking relationship/friendship/courtesy shit. I trust my hubby 1000% doesn’t mean I don’t care to ask who he is with. What if something happened to him/his phone, or there was an emergency... I dunno. Kinda nice to know where your other half is if you needed. 
Sorry he didn’t offer to pick you up.. I mean, ya you could have asked. But any half decent man would have offered. 🙄

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Shocked. Yet my bf has said some vile shit to me and im about 1 comment away from leaving him.

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I have a feeling you’ve been pretty suspicious of him and probably a little controlling for it to get to this point. 
If you want a ride, ask.

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Girl, that "man" is shit. Get rid of him, you deserve better and if he doesn't have the DECENCY to answer your question while other women are there. It's sketch AF! What is the intention? Um, no...

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It sounds like he sucks, but I guess if he was drinking he couldn't have driven in bad weather conditions or any conditions. 
He had no reason to be so rude. 
I had a dude leave me on the side of the road one time, in fact, hung up on me. It was a red flag- I never should have talked to him again tbh. Like he really didn't even care. I think a partner caring is kind of important, since you are supposed to be a team. 
It doesn't really sound like your relationship is going anywhere good- he's being kind of toxic, like yeah you should trust your partner, but also, he just did something that makes him seem extremely unreliable?

How crappy is my bf?

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