Lonely & calm about it

I’ll be 28 weeks tomorrow. I have always Felt down in the dumps cuz this whole pregnancy seemed not right. I planned my pregnancy and I already love my daughter. ❤️

I know I’ve talked about how my bd cheated on me while I was pregnant til I was 5 months. Well he’s been nice for about a week he’s been calling and texting nonstop. Basically I felt like he’s trying to suffocate me with all the affection. I found that very weird. Because when we started dating he told me he didn’t like being suffocated. So I respected that wish.

I’ve did some undercover detective work and the female of course she sent me screenshots of them texting bk and fwd. she told me he said he never knew I was pregnant til last November 2020. (But like I said we planned this pregnancy). A little insider I’m pregnant with the baby we planned back in May 2020. We’re having a baby girl. The gf didn’t know that. She told me he wanted her to be his first to carry his only daughter. She claims he wants to marry her and all this other stuff. She puts him out recently because he’s lying to her about me. He telling ppl he got some other female pregnant also. (My bd and his gf going bk and fwd now) so now I’m confused. He tells me I don’t want her (gf) to know about me (his child mom).

Long story short I was undercover trying to find something and I did because he NEVER left her alone. She kicked him out because he lied and then he started blowing up my line. I found out about them two still hooking up late at night (like me and him did). And I’ve told him about it. He never likes to admit his wrong. But told me I’m being childish and I need to grow up. (It’s not about being childish it’s about owning up to what’s wrong and being a man.) **I kid you not I respectfully told my bd if you’re still in a relationship with your gf I will respect it and not respond to your text or calls. ** but he tells me he’s not seeing her he been dated her way before me and she can’t resist him.

See when he cheated the first 5 months of our relationship when I found out it was a ‘GIRL’ I was beyond happy because he said he’ll feel complete if he had one. So God blessed us. Well I had named her Eliana Shera.

Soon as the gf kicks him out he’s back to being interested in my pregnancy wanting to know about the appointments and wanting pics of her. I told him I named her. He tells me he doesn’t like the name I picked. He picks a name and it’s Amarie De’Lunda. I said NOPE (well for a week he been trying to get on my good side) we chose Amari DeAnna. He tells me in a rude tone “You better not change it either. He tells me it’s gone be that and that’s that.” (Instantly I said who r u talking to like that.) He tells me you. Now he’s gone back with her. And I’m back alone...but I’m calm about it. It is what it is!

1. Should I change my daughter name back to what I picked?

2. Am I wrong?

3. Is he wrong?