Is this narcissism, control, or manipulation etc?

I know this behaviour is not normal, he is also verbally and emotionally abusive. What would your opinion be on these following things. I don't need anyone to tell me to leave because I am already making plans to do that. Some might say it doesn't even matter, because I've already decided to leave. But it matters to me.... Because I just wanna know that I'm not crazy and it's not all me. Like he says it is. Here goes (these are just the examples from the past 2 days)

1.Having a normal conversation then he gets bored and ignorant and shuts me down.

2. I tell him about thinking of starting my business back up and he shuts me down uninterested. Even though I listen to all his news on his stuff

3.He does weird outbursts like "bang" in reference to punching me

4.Everytime I fucking speak he has attitude

5.Miserable and pissed off all the time.

6.Only talks when it suits him.