Venting...CD 63

Sorry this is a long post!

So I’m on day 63 of my cycle right now. All my life I have had a normal period, never really late, usually right on time or sometimes a day early. My period was like clockwork for sure.

In May 2019, I got on birth control (the pill). I wanted to be safe before my wedding in July. I stopped taking my birth control in January 2020. Ever since then my periods have been becoming more and more delayed. In June I had my period and then didn’t get it until late August. Then I believe we had a chemical pregnancy in September, because I was testing faint positives and then there was no sign of anything in the ultrasound.

I then finally got my period in November (almost 3 months without a period). For the first time I took some ovulation predictor tests and the digital ones came out positive. My husband and I tried and now still no sign of AF. I am just confused. This has happened for three cycles in a row now where I don’t get my period for 1 to 2 months if not more and all my hpts are negative.

I talked to my OB/GYN in November and we did a bunch of tests. My hormones are normal and no PCOS. I’m just so confused that this has happened so often now. What I’m really discouraged about is that I don’t know what’s going on, my doctor does not want to see me for a blood test, and I just want to get my period because if I’m not pregnant at least we can try again.

Just needed to vent I know it’s super long. Also just curious to see if anyone else experienced this as well? Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

Good luck to everyone on this journey ❤️