Freaking out

I am 31 weeks and have like 0 things for my baby girl. I am freaking out. We have her crib and car seat/stroller.

I tries holding a baby shower but no one came and close family have all made her blankets (all we have is her grandma on dads size. My family has nothing to do with me) I have told everyone that we need cloths, dipers and the essentials.

I am now at a loss of what to do :( I am starting to feel like a failure. Money is super tight right now as we had unexpected bill pop up and when I go on maternity leave its going to be even more of a strain.

The great state I live in states that I make to much money for assistance yet I am barely making ends me.