My husband and I just split up. We have a 1 year old and another on the way. He got mad at me today because our bedroom is a mess but he has mad no effort to help me clean it. He doesn't help with any cleaning,but blames me when it isn't done. I've been called so many names over the last 5 years that we've been together. And he's cheated on me 4 different times. He may have left me (which I know he'll probably be back tomorrow and try to act like nothing happened. He does it all the time). He always says he's going to leave me. But this time I need the strength to not let him back. I deserve better. And I know this. And my kids won't grow up in that environment. I'm so scared to be a single mom.