I love my boyfriend so much. So much! We have such a healthy relationship and he is always there for me. Treats me like a queen and is just the most awesome guy! We have a great time together.

I know no one is perfect and everyone has their flaws. But I saw a quote recently that stuck with me about significant others and it’s not so much how they treat you but how they treat other people.

He can be so rude to his mom and I’ve had this talk with him over again and almost broke up with him. He’s changed a little but will still talk back as that is just their “relationship” he says and she isn’t perfect either. I mean he still does things for his mom and treats her well but I heard him raise his voice at her and I was so appalled. He knows I just hate that and always make him carry her groceries for him.

When it comes to me, my boyfriend won’t even let me carry a bag when we are out shopping and will always pull the car around so I don’t have to walk. That’s why I’m so confused. He’s a gem to me and always is. He never raised his voice at me once and won’t let me lift a finger but ita confusing when he is like that with other people.

I am supposed to move in with him after dating for 2 years and I am just confused.