so I asked one of my gay guy friends where good sex shops in the area where because I know he goes to them. A week or two later he texts me and asks me why I asked him, I mentioned that my boyfriend and I wanted to try new things. Then he asked me if I liked it fast or slow, I didn’t respond because I thought it was odd. I later looked at the message again and saw he deleted it. I just thought it was a little weird for him to ask me that.