My husbands cousin who he considers like a brother has a huge drinking problem, which is an entire subject in it self.

He recently came over to help my husband work on something at our house and decided to stay that evening to watch a football game and have dinner!

It was my husband, my self (28 weeks pregnant) and my 2 year old. It wasn’t like we had a party or anything big.

I noticed the had been drinking all day and not really helping my husband. I left it alone because it wasn’t my issue. By the time the game started, I could tell he was drunk. He was play really rough with our little one and at one point saying inappropriate things about wanting to be with my sister. He eventually goes to his truck and brings back a bottle of patron and drinks half of it!!!!! He eventually falls asleep on couch. We left him alone until he sobered up and he left late the morning.

Now that the Super Bowl is coming up this weekend he asked to come over. I’m cringing because I already feel uneasy and it’s just us again. My husband told him if he comes over he’s not aloud to drink hard alcohol because of how he acted the last time and it wasn’t okay!

I don’t know if it’s wrong of my husband to tell him that because he is a grown adult but it wasn’t okay. Is it ever okay to tell someone they can’t come over if they are going to be drinking that much!?