So my husband and I have been discussing ttc a lot. We both did genetic testing and fertility testing (semen analysis, blood tests etc)

The other day we were in the doctors appointment together and the doctor said I will need to get off birth control in May or June if we want to conceive when I am 28 or 29. We both agreed this was a good plan and I would start prenatals.

The next day I asked my husband how he feels about trying for a baby starting in May or June (as we agreed to the previous day in the appointment). He said “what do you mean try for a baby in June?? I thought you were just going off birth control”

Im sorry but he is a very smart man. How would he not understand that going off bc means actively trying? Especially when the doctor said it in no unclear terms.

I am very depressed because the day before I was so exciting about starting to try soon and now he is saying we will wait “a couple years” which is not ok with me at all. I am just so heartbroken