Idk something is odd here

Question girls so my boyfriend has a 5 years old son with someone else obviously. He never had something for her. It’s just all happen in accident and he never left his son. Now he has full custody of his son. His babymomma is something else. She was horrible to my boyfriend and she would say some horrible things while she was pregnant about the baby. She’s not a very good person. I don’t wanna say my boyfriend personal stuff but let’s just say she’s very very toxic. Anyways she’s has a man and everything they live together but she just texted my boyfriend literally right now that she needs help if he can go pick her up. My boyfriend mentioned to me just now he told me I can go but if I go I could imagine how that would look. So I told him just go just drive safe. Should I have went with him ? And I just find it weird that she called him not her man. My boyfriend father agrees with me because she tried doing this last time. He was like she has her own boyfriend she shouldn’t be going to him anymore. If it has to do with his son than yeah but this has nothing to do with his son. The mom totally disagrees because she’s trying to show example for the son. I understand both points but the way she treated my boyfriend it’s crazy to me how my boyfriend still helps her out sometimes I wouldn’t. I been through what he has been through. If I had a child with that man let’s just say he would never see that kid because they are not safe people to be around. Anyways is it just me but I think I should’ve went now and not just that it’s weird it’s 1am during a pandemic what is she doing at Denny’s ?!

Btw the man is a nice guy so I know she wouldn’t do anything to her. She normally the one with very bad anger issues.

Update... I’m pretty annoyed at this point. My boyfriend said it’s bad her car is near a cliff hanging. I told him she should’ve called the cops or a tow truck what are you doing to do about that. Now my boyfriend wants to pay for a tow truck for her. I told him it’s not your responsibility that’s her she’s just adding you problems that you shouldn’t be fixing. We are so short on money. I know how she is she was probably driving reckless that’s how she is. Maybe I’m overthinking this but this concerning because she only has her sons Friday’s (her choice) if she’s driving reckless I hope she doesn’t drive like this around her son. My boyfriend didn’t even bother to ask her how this happened. He told me it’s non of his business but I disagree she made it his business. He’s going out of his way to help her he doesn’t bother to ask this is

frustrating honestly.