Triangle😞

The baby father is not making you a priority and also has toxic behaviors so thats a no. Move forward. Stop allowing him access to your mind, heart, and soul and you wont be so confused.

I’m gonna start off by saying yes you need to be alone. The baby daddy wants his cake and eat it too, he has a girlfriend but is stringing you along and you are his back up plan, and you deserve better than that. If you were meant to be together you would have been and it wouldn’t be other people in the scenario. As for the new boyfriend you are basically doing to him as your ex boyfriend it’s doing to you. You are stringing him along, he is your back up plan, and you were trying to have your cake and eat it too as well. This is in a love triangle this is to unfaithful people wasting other peoples time. The whole situation is toxic in case you haven’t noticed, and frankly everyone is better off alone than in bad company. Your current boyfriend deserves better, his current girlfriend deserves better, and you all need to be alone because he’s being on faithful to his girlfriend, and you’re being unfaithful to your boyfriend. Honestly I would and things with both of them, stop listening to the bullshit from your ex, he tells you what you wanna hear to keep the sex window open and the possibilities of it, the more chances you give him the less he respects you. He knows you don’t wanna be alone, you’re clearly not being fulfilled by your current partner, and he uses that as leverage to get him there. He knows you’re vulnerable, he knows you’re lonely, and he uses that to his advantage to take a vantage, get away with murder, can you tolerate whatever because you don’t wanna be alone. You need to back away from all of this, be honest to your current boyfriend and break up with him because you are cheating on him. And be honest with the baby daddy that this whole situation is a load of crap and he needs to get the hell away from you. You are better off alone than in bad company and that’s what this really is down deep. You are allowing loneliness and desperation to be the reason that you settle for less than you deserve. You deserve better than a man who’s cheating on his girlfriend and being the other woman, yet your current boyfriend deserves better than you who is cheating on him with her ex. The whole situation is a mess, and all honesty I would back out of all of it, take the time to heal, work on yourself inside and out, and stop allowing this guy to manipulate you. Because that’s basically what he’s doing. And in all honesty I was seek some counseling, Because you need to detach from this man, you were clearly emotionally attached still, and you need to stop letting his mind games and manipulation work against you. You need to work on yourself big time.