Is being relationship lazy a reason to break up

LLO

It's not a new relationship. Been together 3 years, live together, I have 2 kids, he has none but treats mine like they are his. Just never puts in effort. Never for dates, get aways, daily, never flirty. We are like roommates that happen to have sex twice a month. I love him. He's great but the relationship is lacking. SO MUCH and talking and counseling hasn't helped. I know the grass isn't always greener but also dont want to settle. I dont know where the line is.

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