What would cause me to be invisible to men?

I have no problems out in bars or on the street or on dating apps, I get a lot of male attention and told I’m attractive. Usually these men aren’t my type

It’s just in normal life, a guy has never liked me back. I’m not clingy but I never know how to catch a guy’s attention. Like if I like a guy, he will never make a move even if I make hints.

I go on dates and even when they go well and i get excited, they ghost or never text me again even if they ask me on another date. I’m starting to not get my hopes up at all and give up on dating altogether , I’ve got no sex drive anymore either is this normal!?

I just feel that maybe I’m just a nobody to men and destined to be single. I attract the very boisterous loud manly type but I want to go for a mature intelligent man but they never like me back