I have been talking to this boy since august and then we have been meeting since October then have been actually been official since January.

We usually meet twice a week and just chill and watch a film and cuddle a bit. I am 17 and he is 18, however I am a virgin, and he has a body count of 6. That doesn’t bother me and all and he has also said that mine doesn’t bother him.

I have no real issue with doing stuff with him, it’s something that doesn’t really bother me, I kind of just want to get it out of the way. however, the conversation has never really come up and I don’t want to be the one who brings it up.

Over the past few days, it hasn’t felt the same between us, I am not sure if it’s me that’s over thinking it (as I am an overthinker) or if something is actually up with him, I don’t know if has anything to do with the sex thing because I feel like there have been moment where it could have happened, but it didn’t because I didn’t see the signs of it happing because I don’t know them (are there even signs?)

I also feel there is another reason that nothing has happened, in my past relationship some stuff happened along the sexual assault lines. I was never planning of telling him as it’s not something I wanted to bring into a new relationship, but he found out from his good friend, and I do feel as if he doesn’t want to do anything that may upset me?

However, there is another reason I think he could possibly be off with me, we actually met because his best friend is my best friends’ brother (so our Best friends are brother and sister and we both happened to be there at the same time) and we are two school years apart even though I am 17 and he is 18, he always says as a joke “oh your too young for me’’ I am becoming worried that he might actually be thinking that.

I am a massive overthinker and I am 50/50 that in my head I am escalating the situation in my head, I just don’t want to talk to him because if everything is okay, I might make myself look super stupid, he just hasn’t been himself recently and it’s got lots of things running through my head. it is valentine’s day tomorrow so could that be making things more tense?

Please can someone give me some advice it would be much appreciated x