Alright so I just have a quick question I will base this question around something that happened to me

I was having a serious conversation with my partner and I explained to him that I felt like he didn't care about my feelings and that maybe he isn't happy in our relationship. Now I will admit I am a very emotional person and I will cry about anything.

In response to me explaining how I feel he says " Jesus you act like I'm beating your something!!" He says this a lot when I try to talk to him about how I feel and I know this is some sort of manipulation or gaslighting.

Has this ever happened to you before? And what should I do about it because I'm at a loss.