So my daughters FIRST bday is coming up and I just wanted to do something small with my immediate family and husbands immediate family at my parents house which it’s just his mom sis and grandparents. (Doubt theyll go) However his sister wants to do something separate and in public AND invite more family members from out of town... she’s asking for an answer ASAP so she can make a reservation at Peter piper pizza...what do y’all think? Am I in the wrong if I say I don’t want that...my husband’s make it seem like I’m ungrateful but they never really ask about my daughter or communicate with me and have always judged me for so many things...even didn’t think my daughter was his now she wants to try to go all out and do things her way so she can invite who she wants...But mainly I don’t want my daughter around too many ppl and in public...aren’t we in a pandemic still? I just don’t think it’s necessary 🤷🏻‍♀️ Lol here’s a text of hers to my husband..I never even said yes..